Posted: 04 May 2009 05:00 AM PDT
Over the past few months, the mainstream media has been filled with stories about the New Frugals and the return to thrift. People who once lived beyond their means, financing their lifestyle with debt, have "found religion". They've begun to embrace frugality, and have discovered the joy that can come through spending less.
The new age of thrift
I've heard similar sentiments from GRS readers — and from my wife. To a degree, I sympathize. None of us wants to pay for the mistakes of others. When people make poor choices, they ought to face the consequences.
Still, I'm happy to see so many people discovering frugality. It's an opportunity for us to spread the gospel of thrift. I don't think it's productive to spend time judging people for their past mistakes. If someone has a sincere desire to change, then I'm happy to help them do so. If these New Frugals possess the zeal of recent converts, perhaps they'll spread the word to their friends and family, and maybe we will see a fundamental shift in American values. I believe that this country needs more frugality, not less.
Those with long-time habits of thrift should relish the current economic climate. Our smart choices will help us to weather the storm. Meanwhile, we should be glad to share what we know with others. The more people we can welcome to this way of life, the more likely it is to stick, to become a permanent part of our culture.
One of the "gleefully frugal" profiled in Richtel's article is GRS-reader Katy Wolk-Stanley, who writes a blog called The Non-Consumer Advocate. Katy's goal is to help people learn to live on as little income as possible. She follows some familiar frugal practices (like hanging clothes to dry), and she tries to buy nothing new — except for underwear. I asked Katy how she feels about the New Frugals.
"I am seeing a profound increase of interest in frugality, which I welcome with open arms," she told me. "Very few of us have exercised complete financial responsibility from day one, and sometimes it does take hitting rock bottom before we embrace change. Frugality is not just for the chosen few, but for anyone who wants to take control of their lives. Just because a person has been frugal for years doesn't mean they're more deserving of kudos than someone whose frugal journey just started.
Katy made an interesting observation: "I've noticed that the mainstays of my frugal life have increased in popularity. The library lines are longer and the thrift stores are consistently busy, but I don't resent this. I'm happy to share my non-consumer tricks with whoever is looking to ratchet down their lifestyle. Frugality is for everyone."
She also pointed to a piece over at The Frugal Girl about the "unriveting story" of a woman who was always frugal and never got into debt.
Why thrift matters
If enough people do these things, if enough people see the benefits of these changes, if enough people retain a few of these skills once the economy improves, we'll all be better off. I think frugality and thrift are about more than just saving money. They offer a chance to re-examine our lifestyles.
Thrift matters to me because it is a skill that I can use every day in many ways, big and small, to maximize the value of my money. But it's not the money that's important. It's what the money represents, which is freedom — the freedom to write. This is why thrift matters to me: By being a wise steward of my money, I am able to pursue my dream of writing full-time.
Making frugality personal
Last weekend, a group of us gathered for our annual trip to central Oregon. Every year, the women go shopping at the big-name chains: Old Navy, The Gap, etc. This year, however, some of them joined me and Kris for a trip to Goodwill. They had so much fun that they went back to do more shopping the next day!
This is just a small example — and I have others — but I think it's telling. I applaud people making small changes like this. This is how we learn to be frugal, how we learn to embrace an ethic of thrift. We try one thing. Then we try another. And another. I don't think that people can maintain habits when they try to go cold turkey. I think that it's better to make incremental changes to your lifestyle.
How do you feel about the New Frugals and the return to thrift? Do these new converts bug you? Are you glad to see them? Do you think the do-it-yourself economy will last? When things turn around, do you plan to practice the new skills you've found? Or are you eager to return to the way things were?
For more on this subject, check out the following articles from mainstream media:
[Thanks to Nancy, who asked me to write about this subject, and who pointed me to the Redbook articles. Goodwill photo by Scurzuzu.]
Posted: 03 May 2009 05:10 PM PDT
It's that time of year: Kris and I spent most of the weekend working in the yard. We planted out the vegetable garden, but most of our time was spent pruning seemingly endless shrubbery. I'm not complaining — the end result is a lovely yard during the summer — but it's daunting to realize that we're barely a quarter of the way done. Thank goodness for quality tools.
Speaking of quality tools, that's a good way to start of this collection of personal-finance links from around the web:
Popular Mechanics has compiled a list of 50 tools everyone should own (with tips!). Though I think 50 tools seems like a lot, I admit that I can't find fault with any of these choices. I just used my pick to tear out an azalea this afternoon!
Elsewhere, CBS News has a story about how supermarkets lure you to buy more. We've covered these ploys many times before (such as in this list of 15 great grocery shopping tips), but it never hurts to review.
After Richard Barrington's guest post here at Get Rich Slowly last week, I've been checking out his work over at MoneyRates. There's some good info there, including his recent list of six retirement investment mistakes. Are you making any of these?
Finally, here's my favorite blog post of the week. It's been a while since I linked to something from Philip Brewer at Wise Bread, but he just wrote about trying to reverse-engineer the best time of your life. "Why should the best time of your life be some time in the past?" he writes. "With some clear thinking and some effort, you can recapture what was great then for today." What he's really talking about is Mihály Csíkszentmihályi's concept of flow. It's a powerful thing. I should write more about it in the future.
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